Do not make fun of an aggrieved person. Allegation of demand for dowry after 18 years is nothing but a joke. Was your marriage an arranged one or love marriage? If it was love marriage then there is no question of dowry. I believe it was a love marriage from Vegetarian and non-vegetarian factor.Now the basic issue is that if you do not have money then you can neither obtain the services of an advocate nor of any other agency for relief. Please instead of becoming confused on this forum by different advices and strategies of the experts, kindly take your own decision and act swiftly. By the way what is the age of your daughter? Why she is hostile to you?