My wife is staying at her parental house from last 01 year willingly. After my several request she is so reluctant to come back and stay with my family. We have a kid also of 01 year old. She is sending me various sms everyday containing threatening, false fabricated story as well as asking me huge money per month. I have kept all the sms, took print out and stored backup in my PC. Now a days she has accused me by saying unsatisfactory of s*xual relationship also. Her parents are continuously regulating her to not to join her in matrimonial house. I apprehend that they may take legal action (498a/DV) against me and my family. In this situation how far the sms will get its evidentiary value before the court. Also advise me to take necessary steps to be taken at this stage. Though I have sent her three letters with AD asking her to come back and rejoin, and still every month sending her money also. Actually she wants to stay with me only not in my family. We stayed for 01 year together and were separated from my family. Now a day due to illness of my parents I have decided to stay jointly with them. During our together stay I found her a combination of the following:
1. Cruel
2. Adament/Arogant
3. Living beyond its mean
4. Dominating
5. Perjury
Now I am getting fear to rejoin with her and stay separately again as she has already started to fabricate false story and all. In this situation to save my old poor parent, what Should I do pl advise.. At this stage I am determined to save my parents first rather than my marital relationship. Because, she is trying to extort my money only instead of showing interest to comeback. Whenever she has been asked for the same, She wrote false sms consisting of her mental and physical torture by my parents. As on date I have lost faith on her, under any circumstances I will not be able to trust her.
Today morning She and her mother suddenly visited our house in my absence and asked my parents to allow her to get the cloths from almirah. Desirably my parents answered her to come with my baby first and she may allow the same in my presence. Then they started shouting and created some scene, given threatening and went on.
Under this circumstances what should I do Please advise.