Hi All Respected members,
Many times earlier my wife threatened me that she will "do something and trap me and my family", on small small daily husband wife issues. Also, I heard that same thing she said to her mom and dad on separate occasions .. while discussing our daily day-to-day life events with them i.e. "iss baar aap kuchh mat karna... iss baar mai aisa kuchh karungi ki ye sab ko leke jaungi".
One day on a very trivial heated discussion, she run towards the kitchen shouting "abhi apna chaku se hath katati hu aur tujhe batati hu...", I was in bedroom , she was in drawing room, I also ran after her and snached the knife from her hand.. in that scuffle her bangles broke and she got bruises on her hand around the wrist... I called my neighbours and told them "she was cutting her hand".. then she lied and said "nahi aisa kuchh nahi tha..". Then I called her dad and told him everything too and told him to make her understand on this topic...
I thought may be in anger she did that and took it lightly and tried to avoid any thing against her wish.
Can you tell if in future again she tries to do same kind of thing and if she succeed.. what should I do to protect myself from that... this incident happened approx 10 months back....
Also, One day my father-in-law called my up to discuss something and we were having a heated discussion.. and from back side his son (approx 24) was yelling and threating me of dire consequences and all that crap.. when I asked her father why he is yelling... he said.. "arrey leave him.. wo to bachha hai.. aap mujse baat karo, use chillane do"... few days later I got to know that my father-in-law was only signaling him to shout and speak those words against me... I heard this while my wife was talking to her brother and telling her all this on phone...
Please advice what should I do in both matters...
