Basis of Desertion

Sandy,

I express my concern at your strained marital relationship and at the same time I would like to appreciate your stand of joining with your husband without giving divorce. You can approach the District Judge of Bengaluru, where you live with a petition for Restitution of Conjugal Rights praying for an order against your husband asking him to join you. Also you can present a petition for return of all your belongings which according to you are being kept with your mother-in-law.

yes i agree wid ramakrishna sir. but u can file the case only in ahmdabad or where u were living together last time.

You can apply for “Restitution of Conjugal Rights” under s (9) of Hindu Marriage Act 1955 at district court of bangalore

There are two ways to look at the problem and the solutions. First, decide whether you want to break the marriage or not. Second, decide how you can lead a good married life. Before setting the law into motion, think what in fact you had perceived your role as well as the role of your husband in the marital life and whether there were clear exchange of the perceived roles between both. Love, understanding, compassion, etc. are prerequisites of human life whereas law cannot enforce these subtle human values. There are gives and takes in any relationship. Understand the diverse backgrounds from which the couples emerge and also appreciate the amount of mutual adjustments need to forge a unified life. Marriage is more than a contract. That is why I suggest you weigh the pros and cons of whatever decision you propose to take. If the relations are irretrievably broken, of course, divorce is the only option.  Then the only course of action is to seperate with least ill-will. May god bless you.