Sir,
I'm an Computer Sc. graduate (BE - Engg) who got married to my wife (MBA HR recruitment) in Aug 2011. Both families belong to delhi. My family is working class (all govt service) and hers is business class family. There was no dowry demand in marriage. The girl was working for 1 years befor marriage and for 8-9 months after marriage. All total she stayed with me for one and half years in which there were lot of issues. She didn't wanted to do job and was critical of my parents and my unwedded younger sister. My father is still working while mother is housewife. She didn't wanted to help in any housework and constantly wanted me to seperate from parents. A younger sister who is the joint responsibility of my father and myself, I never wanted to leave the house and always begged her to stop with all the non-sense but she was adamant. She left me in Jan 2013 and filed cases in Feb 2013. There family has filed Dowry, 498a, 406, 506 and 125 CrPC on us. Her father is influential and used his approach to constantly harass us by sending police to our house every other day. Mentally disturbed after about 1 years I couldn't continue with job in Jan this year because in private company time is money and they took away my time in court dates, CAW cell, police harassment, her routine public nautanki at our house etc etc. Also they created negative repute in the eyes of my manager and HR by sending letters stating that I was involved in dowry practice and that the company should reveal my salary in court.
125 CrPC is coming up for interim maintenance next month and I have no job. I've filed my affidavit in which I've mentioned that in since marriage in Aug 2011 till now in 3 years I've worked for 31 months in which I earned all total 17 Lakh Rs but had not been doing job for the last 7 months. I do not have any other income but my father is still earning. Since we have house, there are no liabilities on me but today after 7 months, my savings have exhausted due to marriage expenses, foreign honeymoon trip, bought car 3 months after marriage and recent marriage expenses of younger sister. Still looking for an IT job (I'm a C/C++ programmer with 6 years of experience). My wife, who was earning last about 12000 pm after marriage is not working anywhere (A friend living nearby sees her almost daily at her home).
Case is in Delhi in Family court. How much mainteance could I end up paying in the view of the learned advocates? Is it possible to ask the court to defer interim maintenance until I get a job? My advocate says that the judge will consider delhi labour wages for educated skilled worker and I might end up paying Rs 4000 to 5000 per month which would be a great burden on my father because I can't pay her the arrears for past 1.5 yeasr considering this amount and future maintenance. What to do?