Firstly I am not a lawyer..... just someone who is now studying DV Act so I know whatever my lawyer is telling me is right or wrong.
It seems your lawyer and your wife's lawyer are good friends and you are getting advantage because of it. I am surprised how did your wife's lawyer didnt get her a ex-parte order for non-submission of say by your lawyer till date.
But that doesnt mean you should take this matter lightly, you be careful as well b'se your wife's lawyer might get her ex-parte interim order anytime.
I filed DV in November 2014 & my residence interim might come in next 2 weeks. So it really depends on the lawyers.
As per DV Act - Sec 12 sub-section (5) The Magistrate shall endeavour to dispose of every application made under sub-section (1) within a period of sixty days from the date of its first hearing.