My marriage is around 12 years. It was never a happy marriage but i have been faithfull to my wife. However during last 6 months i found that she has had 2 affairs (s*xual where she kissed ). with 2 different people. After i conftronted her with proof of her chats. Please note i do not have any photos, but i have details chats that she did during that affair. She admitted.
But after stopping this she has started chatting with random people over the internet . She shares her photos , sometimes does s*xual chats.
I have tried my best to stop this behaviour, i asked for counselling, took her for vacation . nothing seems to change. I am tired , depressed. I am good man, i have my share of mistakes in the past but i have corrected them and i am new man now. But she does not seem to change.
I have decided to leave the house. I cannot take it anymore, i want to apply a legal seperation or atleast some kind of legal notice to her, to show i am serious . Please advise what is the best way i should go ahead.
any input will be good
venkat.