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eswari (not yet assigned)     01 May 2014

Need help

Hello!

Sir my father is a railway employee, he used to earn a very good amount of salary till he was working. he is going to get retired on may 2 nd 2014. we are four childrens of his.from the very begining of his working career, he never used to give sufficient amount of money to the family(that is to my mother).all the four childrens studied in govt schools and colleges with 15/- fees. he used to tell all his employees that he got debted because all his childrens education. But in actual he never used to give any money sufficiently. my mother used to borrow money from their maidens home and brought up.  in between he bought a flat in visakhapatnam, by some reasons we could not pay the amount to the bank that we took loan from and the bank manager kept the flat for auction giving a notice in the news paper. and since we felt like we cannot roam much  to the rented house  we decided to pay back the loan amount , and we borrowed some 3 lakhs amount money from one of my brothers friend and cleared the bank amount and came to this flat.now when he is getting retired he is not saying anything about the money neither the money interest and he is getting retired without paying any amount. my mother signed the documents and all the money only he is going to get.

at this stage he is denying to give the money back and asking that person to settle through the court. and that fellow is asking us the money telling that i gave the money to help you now we are not able to do anything. is there any way that i can stop his retirement money immidietely. and this is not the only thing now he is showing us 50 lakhs debts and we are helpless and many more things are there. he has got 2 daughters and two sons. none got married and settled. and now he want to run away with that money. and one of the daughter is suffering from cancer and from past five years he is not even giving us proper ration.

what is the best way i can forward in this issue.



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 8 Replies

G.L.N. Prasad (Retired employee.)     01 May 2014

Try contacting District Legal Services Authority's reconciliation, to some how commit him to the debt, and take down what ever he says before Hon.Secretary and this is just an attempt and not a solution.

As they might have seen several cases, without spending a rupee (other than conveyance) you may be able to find a solution to the family problem.

What about other brothers and family members and are they not earning and can contribute something to family ?

eswari (not yet assigned)     01 May 2014

right now my elder brother is earning for the family and only he is supporting the whole family, including my younger brother and sisters education. and also providing us the ration every month. 

Biswanath Roy (Advocate)     02 May 2014

District Legal Authorities intervention in the matter is immediately necessary.

T. Kalaiselvan, Advocate (Advocate)     02 May 2014

Legally you cannot force him  but as suggested by others, you may give a complaint with the district legal services authority for intervention and subsequent mediation and see if you can get some relief through that channel.

eswari (not yet assigned)     12 July 2014

sir   Now my father is creating another problem at home. He actually got all his money, all the retirement money he has given to his sisters and enjoying .

We have actually put a case against him in the family court. The justice told him to serve  security for 1835000/- . He didnt serve that and no action has being taken place. now he is roaming nude in the house and for asking why you are behaving like this to simply told to leave the house and the house is his and he will behave the way he like.

We cant move out of the house and he is not behaving the way even his wife cant stay in the house. and making believe all the neighbours that he is given all the money to us and even then we have put a case. and the money that  my brothers friend  has given, he told him to do what ever he can do he will not even give a single paise. And to the person who came to serve the notice told him that none of us were born to him, well anyways he cant prove that by any means because whatever the reason we are not going to leave our mother.

Even after putting the case nothing has been done yet, what can be done in this kind of situation.

Biswanath Roy (Advocate)     12 July 2014

From your last post relating to your query  I have reason to believe that your father is not mentally well that is why he is behaving in abnormal manner which ought to be checked up by any Psychiatrist. Obtain a certificate from that mental Doctor you can put him in any mental hospital for treatment and contact with his superiors and pray for sending  your mother the entire retirement benefit payable by his employer and can sue him 

eswari (not yet assigned)     30 August 2014

sir, my case is running in the court. in the mean while i cant take any action against him.

He is creating Havoc at home, and we cant take any step. It is like the RTI is also like of no use to us. i wrote an application to the railways for the information, its been two weeks i didnt get any response.and he is not even allowing us to breathe at home.

Cant even feel like telling to anyone. he dont even close the door while going to bathroom. he wash his hands  in the kitchen wash bason where all the utensil are kept. everything is delayed and delayed and i am getting frustated. cant even leave the house since case is running. he is just testing our patience to make a crime.

can anyone please help me seriously.

Biswanath Roy (Advocate)     30 August 2014

YOU TAKE SOME AUDIO-VIDEO RECORDINGS OF HIS ILL AND OBSCENE BEHAVIOR AT HOME AND COMPLAIN HARASSMENT AND HUMILIATION COMMITTED BY YOUR HUSBAND AND SUBMIT THE SAME ALONG WITH A PETITION BEFORE THE COURT FOR RELIEF.


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