31-03-2014

Seek the services of counsellor followed by engaging a local lawyer

@Mohan - probably she could be emotionally distressed after losing her parents. Try to be kind/symathetic to her and then gauge her actions.Normally people who lose their dear ones are very aggressive,they explicitly do not show that they need love but implicitly they crave/die for it, and once provided they become very softened. Probably ,as suggested by Mr.Vashista above, seek the services of a good consellor,she may burst open with her point of views which can be mutually sorted out.Pls remeber divorce will be cruel to both of you and more so for your child.

I agree with the views of  Dr. Vash*ta as well as Mr.Gautam Kapoor.  This is a very sensitive issue to be handled carefully, especially keep in in view of the future of both the child as well as the wife.  She might have been traumatized due to tragedies she met in her life in the past which she is not able to identify , but due to frustration she is behaving this way on which she has no control herself.  This can be made alright by visiting a counselor or by being very passionate, loving  and caring with her to some extent at least pretending to be so in order to make her alright. So best thing is to take some initiatives as suggested or look for the ways to sort out issue legally by consulting a local lawyer.

no grounds for divorce made out.

husband wont be allowed to desert the mother with child.

dear husband, understand your responsibilities and make necessary adjustments.

Mr. Mohan kUMAR N,

Since you are a consultant, may not be for matrimonial issues I donot know, but rightly advised by Mr. Amit, I endorse and appreciate  his opinion and expertise.