I need some help.
I was married five years ago. We've lived together for roughly three years in US. I've trusted her and filed GC for her too and we both got it.
The wife has been online in chat and on calls however, she was doing domestic duties. During the last time she stayed with me roughly two years ago, I realized that, she was interested in someone else and has been cheating on me and she left me roughly two years back. I don't know where she is. I was devastated. I have got some evidence to prove it. Looks like she must have come with me to US with the intention of getting GC and cheating me for money. She must be working in US and making money. I don't know contact information or whereabouts. I've sent emails a year ago asking her not to mess up my life. No response.
In laws are never co-operating in talks to legally break up. I suspect that, for a reason, they might have been waiting for me to file the case seeking divorce.
I want to file divorce petition. I don't want to wait anymore and waste my life time. I need to marry again legally and get a family. My family and I'm going through emotional torture.
Can I go ahead If I file divorce first, will they be able to slap me with a 498a misusing it? How to avoid 498a? Should I get anticipatory bail or contact police commissioner? What are the rules of 498a? Someone told me that if I file the divorce first, she can't file 498a. Is this correct? Kindly advise.
Thanks in advance