Husband has filed Divorce in Family court Jaipur.
I have filed RCR in Family court of my parents city.Summons were served upon him by post and through Family court of his City.8 months passed in this process.Even than he did not appear.Than my file was transferred to Fast track court.Honourable court passed order to "proceed exparty".On the date when I was to give exparty evidence a lawyer came and gave application that husband wish to contest so Hon'ble Court gave date of one month.On next date husband came and gave application to set aside the proceed exparty order.His application was accepted after imposing fine of 1000rs on him.On next date he came and submitted WS.After that he remained absent on the next 5 dates.I submitted written evidence in his absence and his lawyer accepted copy.Even after that he did come to cross examine me for next 4 dates.Than the Hon'ble Court passed order of "last chance for cross".He did not come even on that date.Than Hon'ble court passed order to proceed exparty and for exparty argument.Finally after remaining absent on 10 dates he came and gave application to set aside the "proceed exparty" order.I gave written objection.When Hon'ble Court was listening to arguments husband lost his cool and asked the Judge in a raised voice as to why he proceeded exparty when his lawyer is coming on his behalf. Hon'ble court noted in order sheet that the application will be disposed on next date.When I went on next date I was told that Hon'ble court of Fast track court has written letter to transfer my file to Main family Court as husband has misbehaved.Nothing happened on next two dates and after delay of 2 months Principal Judge of Main Family Court has ordered for my file to come to the main Family Court.
My lawyer as well as other lawyers of my city are telling me that again "proceed exparty" order will be set aside as this is the practice in my city's Family Court and in Family Court a person can do this atleast 4 times.Is this the usual procedure in Family court ? It has been two years and no progress is being made in my RCR Case :( :( :(. I am dreading that the vicious cycle will start again...he will come,get exparty order set aside and again remain absent on next 10 dates and than again appear once and again same cycle...i.e. 2 more years before he will cross examine me..:( :(...I go on each date and it is really frustating....