My wife have left my home in 2011. We got one son 3 years old. He is staying with his mother. My wife is staying at her parents house but presently she is working in a semi - Govt. School & staying in the School hostel as it is a girls residential school. Our son is also staying with my wife at the school hostel. I wonder how the school authorities is allowing her to keep a 3 yrs old son alongwith her. Does a school hostel is the right place for proper care & upbringing of a 3 yrs old son who is getting deprived of home atmosphere & father love & affection due to his mother arrogant nature. Anyway i have tried my level best in persuading her to return back. ut she didnt. she is also getting support from her parents in staying there. Since 2011 my wife came to my house 3 times only for 15-20 days only during the summer vacation of her school. I came to know that my wife have admitted my son to a prenursery school near her school. I have also visited her no. of times to my inlaws house. She kept me telling that she will leave her job & return to my house after getting 2 yrs of teaching experience. But its 4 yrs now and she is not interested to come back. Our marriage is an arranged marriage. If she is interested in working she can do so at my place.
Now i cant lead my life like this as i`m missing my son & my married & conjugal life got severly affected. She is not interested to do Mutual Divorce.
My question is that :
1. Can i file for divorce on ground of cruelty & desertion. If yes then how long the case will run.
2. if i file for RCR and then if i wins the RCR order and my wife dont return back then what shall i do.
3. Apart from Mutual Consent of Divorce what are the other ways i can get divorce in short period of time.
4. Shall i require to pay maintenance to my wife. She is working in a semi govt school teacher getting rs. 18000/- salary + accomodation + food.
Till date no police case no court case have been filed by either side. Most likely my wife may not contest in the court as she didnt get enough resources to fight in the court. But still i`m not sure. She may can fight. I dont want to waste any more time.
I stay in Orissa. My wife parents house is in Jharkhand. Our marriage ceremony was held at my place in Orissa & also the marriage got registered in Orissa. Can i file RCR or divorce case at Jharkhand ?
Please advice.