I got married in 2015. In 2016 i went to Australia from job for 1 year with my wife. The girl is not working, she used to do before marriage. When in India, she used to ask money from me, i used to give her some, but nothing as permanent amount per month, as and when she required i used to give her money as per need.
Since the date we were here in Australia, the girl is in hunt of money from me. I used to do all the basic needs like - clothing, shopping, makeups, good food, site visits, phone recharge, etc. Then too she was never happy with me, and used to quarrel for money. She said i want money for my personal needs. I asked what personal needs are there which i cannot know? She used to say just give me 5000 to 10000 every month (fixed amount) and then don't care about me and my living, whatever i can do with that money. I asked then what are you going to do with this money? are you going to send to your family? She said its not your matter, i can do anything with that money.
I had sleepless nights with the same money topic fights. I was not able to concentrate on my work. The things got worse and she started to abuse my mother and father who are there back home in India. For small-small things she used to bring my parents in between and give dirty abusive language for them. Even started to hit me and used to scream a lot in the house.
For my peace purpose, i started to give some amount of money every month, and i told i will continue to spend money on you for your basic needs as normal.
She also got a job there in Australia, ad-hoc basis, which she did for around 2 months. All these are coming from her mother, as many times on phone i had heard her mother telling her things like - take money from him, he is your husband and he has responsibility to give you money.
She went back to India after 9 months of stay in Australia. While going back, she bought many stuffs for her parents and her relatives only. Nothing for my family.
Now I am here alone and she has made no contacts with me since she has gone to India. She is active on social media, but no communication with me at all. She went to my home in India and forcefully took all the things she had of her from the room we had. She is not even having any talks with my family, her house is in the same city as mine.
I had very bad experience with her, I told her many times, we are here alone with new marriage, our love should go to high places and we can find ourselves more here. But all she wanted is money from me. Even she used to tell me that you are not giving money to me, i will not have baby as well, because then for baby also you wont give any money !!
I am totally fed up with this relationship, as she have no care for me. I want to get rid of the relationship. My parents are old and cannot do anything for my support. When i return what type of case i can file. I got beaten up by her many times, i controlled her somehow. I wanted to bring my parents abroad, but she used to say if they come here i will go back the same date, and said she cannot tolerate them. I got abusive language all times for me and parents. I know this will continue even in my future life.
Below are my queries:
1) What case can i file? And is it safe for me to file in 1st instance or should i have a talk with their family first?
2) For parents safety what can i do to prevent any harm?
3) Even she was in her mother's home all this time, can she still file false DV and dowry case on me?
4) How to avoid false DV or 498(a) against me?
5) She is not working, can she ask for maintenance, even she is living in her mother's home.
6) Once case is filed may be in ipc-sec-13, can it be converted to ipc-sec-13(b) Mutual Consent Divorce? or a new case for ipc-sec-13(b) will be required to file?
7) How do i prove DV, abuse and hitting on me?
8) Can court give order to mutually live again for say 6 months or so? because i cannot withstand her any more.
Thanks in advance.