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Krishna Mohan (Accountant)     26 April 2013

Harrasment from wife

Hi I got married two months back. My wife was good initially for few days (10 days) but started harrasing me from then. I got completely fed up with her attitude. She is behaving extra ordinarily everyday night. and i suspect that she is having some psycis disorder. the below are some instances-

1. For no reason, With in 30 days of marriage She fought with my parents and seperated me from them. she fights with me if i talk with them. she absues my parents badly which i cannot even write here.

2. She wokes up in the midnight (3am)and forces me to drink milk if i refuses she cryes saying that i dont love her. this happend thrice.

3. she locks herself in the bathroom and refuses to come out for hours together. this happend more than 4 times and all this dram will run till 2-3am.

4. she threatenes to kill herself if i talk to any of my friends, relatives or my sisters. daily she will fight with me for some or the other reason.

5. she forces me to take her name and see her face first thing in the morning. if by mistake (as habituated) i take gods name she will fights with me.

6. when i am in bedroom she slowly locks me from outside and refiuses to unlock untill i say sorry and touch her feet after coming outside.

7. we have told her father about this disorder he took her for one week and said he will show her to doctors but i dont know after one week she came back as before, with no improvement.

8. day by day thi is going worst and worst.  i am spending sleepless nights since 45 days. i have informed so many times this to her father he saying he can not help. i suspect (but sure) he knows this disorder much before than our marriage.

9. she absuses me and my family badly. we are very respected family in the society we can not even spell those words.

10. she is blaming me that i am manhandling her. but i never did that. their parents are calling my parents and threatening to file case against on all our family menbers.

11. my brother expired recently in an accident (15 days back). she has no condolences to that and fights with me if i go and see my parents to console them. she fought with me for not saying 'i love you' on the day by brother expired. this shows her mental stability.

Currently she is with me. and her parents are refusing her to take home and show her to a doctor. she is refusing to come with me for a doctor chech up.

she will not cook food for me and neither talks to me. she will come to me only to fight. simply sits idle for all the day watching horror movies in TV and horror serials like' anamika'.

i am completely confused/upset and not able to concentrate on my work.

now i dont want to live with her. please save me from this 'DEVIL' who swallowed all my happiness.



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Adv k . mahesh (advocate)     26 April 2013

take the help of your near one or there family member alongwith them take her to the doctor by conselling sections she will come to normal life do not be in hurry this may lead to some other complications 

if you say some thing and goes to office and she commits any thing that will a extra problem for you try to take another person help 

Krishna Mohan (Accountant)     26 April 2013

She is threatening by saying she will commit suicide and write all my family members in the suicide note.

she took locker keys where my certifictes and passport is there and threatening to destroy them and spoils my life and career if i dont listen to her words.

i am facing hell lot of problems from her. i need legal support. please help. i can no more digest it.


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Originally posted by : vamsi

Hi I got married two months back. My wife was good initially for few days (10 days) but started harrasing me from then. I got completely fed up with her attitude. She is behaving extra ordinarily everyday night. and i suspect that she is having some psycis disorder. the below are some instances-

1. For no reason, With in 30 days of marriage She fought with my parents and seperated me from them. she fights with me if i talk with them. she absues my parents badly which i cannot even write here.

2. She wokes up in the midnight (3am)and forces me to drink milk if i refuses she cryes saying that i dont love her. this happend thrice.

3. she locks herself in the bathroom and refuses to come out for hours together. this happend more than 4 times and all this dram will run till 2-3am.

4. she threatenes to kill herself if i talk to any of my friends, relatives or my sisters. daily she will fight with me for some or the other reason.

5. she forces me to take her name and see her face first thing in the morning. if by mistake (as habituated) i take gods name she will fights with me.

6. when i am in bedroom she slowly locks me from outside and refiuses to unlock untill i say sorry and touch her feet after coming outside.

7. we have told her father about this disorder he took her for one week and said he will show her to doctors but i dont know after one week she came back as before, with no improvement.

8. day by day thi is going worst and worst.  i am spending sleepless nights since 45 days. i have informed so many times this to her father he saying he can not help. i suspect (but sure) he knows this disorder much before than our marriage.

9. she absuses me and my family badly. we are very respected family in the society we can not even spell those words.

10. she is blaming me that i am manhandling her. but i never did that. their parents are calling my parents and threatening to file case against on all our family menbers.

11. my brother expired recently in an accident (15 days back). she has no condolences to that and fights with me if i go and see my parents to console them. she fought with me for not saying 'i love you' on the day by brother expired. this shows her mental stability.

Currently she is with me. and her parents are refusing her to take home and show her to a doctor. she is refusing to come with me for a doctor chech up.

she will not cook food for me and neither talks to me. she will come to me only to fight. simply sits idle for all the day watching horror movies in TV and horror serials like' anamika'.

i am completely confused/upset and not able to concentrate on my work.

now i dont want to live with her. please save me from this 'DEVIL' who swallowed all my happiness.


EK THI DAAYAN Time to become EK THA TIGER I bet this is all a result of tuitioning from her parents. As you say her father took her away to give treatment, she came back becoming worse than ever. These are not the signs and symptoms of living a happy married life. She does have some kind of mental illness. Take her to a government psychiatrist for treatment. Start documenting all evidences that she is of unsound mind. One fine day when it is proven beyond doubt that she is suffering from some sort of mental illness, via doctor advice and prescriptttions, file for divorce based on these evidences.


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