Originally posted by :Prabhakar |
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I am sorry as long as he is Hindu and has a living spouse, you will not be having any legal and social status despite your relationship with him. If he converts to Muslim religion without getting divorce with his wife (which I am quite sure, he does not, for the reasons you stated in your question), then also he cannot marry you as per prevailing law, because the purpose of conversion is to marry and court will not take into consideration of such conversion and criminal offence of bigamy is attracted. Hence, he has to get divorce with his wife, which is not that much easy.
Hence, you decide your relationship with him logically with less emotion. Only one soothing reply to your question is that even though your children will be illegitimate, they are entitled to property rights in his property, if he accepts that they are his children.
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Thanks for the reply.
I understand. But love does not have any laws. But also i know we cant live in this society detaching from laws. I am completely helpless in this situation. I dont have a heart to leave him as it is 5 years relationship and i am emotionally attached to him that cant be explained in words. Its true men have less emotions than women. Even if i marry him i have to struggle as i have to come out of my family and i have to be independent but that pain wont b much worse than this. As i am now working, i dont have problem financially but it cant be the case all the time and he is not affluent so he cant help me financially much and i dont bother about his property. i have no choice except to remorse than anything else. It would be painful to my children as well as me if they are considered illegitimate, but still i love him a lot, i dont know what to do. i am facing very difficult situation in my life now. I have no life without him, and my emotions could only be understood by the person who understand the value of love. The only medicine now for me is to marry him second.
Above are my feelings, sorry if it is against the law.