I have been married for 9 years under Christian Law. I have 2 kids. My husband is working in a diffirent city and we live in a different city. Our Marriage is not yet registered. We have a registration given by the church. My husband wants to get a divorce and I do not. We have been living in two cities seperate for 4 yrs now, he visits us once a month. Can this be treated as living seperate in legal terms for a divorce? I am looking to protect my and my kids interest. We are financially dependent on him though I am earning. Can he force me in getting a divorce by cutting off funds given for household expenses?