Please help

@Palak - if you are truly aggrieved then invariably at some point of other you need to take counter steps.First step will be to take a oppurtunity to confide your feelings to him,oppurtunities you should create.Be patient and try to sort out the issues.

If things still do not work,you can contact a lawyer who can advise further.

It is not a legal query.

I agree with expert advise of Mr. Gautam Kapoor.

In such situation only 498 A can  save you and you can start a new life.

now Mr.Mobin will explain how false 498 can save you.

Mr.Mobin... awaiting you reply.

Talk to your husband first about your issues and if the marriage is not working out part ways by going in for mutual consent divorce .

Thanks all for the suggestion.

i have talked to my husband n no of times .about him he says he is like that only ,h can't leave  his friends.or else he never admits his faults. I always try to make him understand that I need his emotionally. But he never understands. In these 2 years he has never came and sat with me and talked.when he is at home ,he  is watching tv late nights.  I am mentally depressed by his behaviour .i always have sleepless night . After 2 months of. Marriage I  had taken. Sleeping pills bec I wanted to die.,at that time my mother in law had put a lot of mental pressure on me.after my sucked attempt she became a bit soft but the restrictions remained the same.now a days my mother in. Law is in Bombay with my sister in law .she is ill.she is now forcing me to leave MBA exams for ever and go there to remain with. Her. She has people with her .but she wants me to come over there.i. Really want to run away from here. I am educated, I want a new life. But I am not getting the strength to do it.but even I can't live like this.i have tried a lot to make my husband understand but he  doesn't care about it.

If I go out without informing them ,what will be the consequences

Nobody can force each other to stay with each other . The reason why have asked you to seek MCD is you can remarry if you want to later on .Else without divorce in future you cant re marry .

understand your plight.Normally it is seen that the only son are a spoilt brat in the family.Now you need to be more stubborn...you need to tell him to take you for marriage counselling (indirectly - you do not need it,he needs it), you need go sit/sleep with him in the sofa...or rather wherever  he sleeps...think of other ways to convince him that you need to start family... If all these fails... God forbid... you need to seek divorce  be it either  contested or MCD.Running will not help you..remember the laws of the land are womman eccentric.. so need to worry...EOD at any  cost do not leave your MBA.All the best.

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Hi  my problem is I can't do anything living with them. I will have to go out then only I can do.can I  file the divorce case in delhi ?can I go to women's commission for help.?please suggest. Bec I can't  initiate anything living with them

Go to your parents house , start your new carrear with MBA and file a case u/s.125Cr.PC for maintenance against your husband.

Sir the thing is my parents especially my father doesn't want to support me . 

Last time when I went to my house thinking that. I will never return he indirectly pressurised me to return back to my  in laws house. They actually are afraid of my in laws  higher contacts. Sir frankly speaking from the starting we educate our girls .treat them like a boy at home .but after marriage we want our girls to bear the mental tortutre . They give hundred of examples og ladies who sacrificed their life and are living happily.

my point is ,  I have lived indendently when I was studying .i  was in job in a reputed organization.was  independent.but for this marriage I left my job bec I wanted to give 100% to my family.  I wanted to live with love and affection with my in laws and husband. But situation was quite different when I came to my in laws house..in these 2 years what I have done is compromised my every desire for the sake of them . But they don't give a damn to it . My mother in law dominates me. My husband has no time for me . My sis .in law provokes my mother in law .  I can't help the situation . I really don't want to get seperTed. But no one is changing as I have tried to make them understand.

i am very weak inside . Not getting the guts to  go for divorce.they  have no problems with me be still now I have done everything acc to them. But  now when my mother in law asked me to leave  MBA exam I was stunned.they don't damn care about my wishes.