As already informed on my earlier posts, I had my second hearing for RCR (filed by my husband) on 15th.However we both had a counseling session in front of Judge (in his chamber) regarding this case. As already expected, my husband imposed each and every allegation (including on my character) he can against me and tried to convince the judge that its me who is responsible for breaking our marriage. Also he pleased infront of judge that I have caused him so much of mental torture that he is unable to bear it anymore and hence don’t want to stay with me and gets rid of me. But most surprisingly the Judge didn’t ask him even a single time that:
1. If I am so bad and have been causing him so much of torture, then why does he still wants to stay with me and filled for an RCR , why didn’t he filed for divorce instead to get rid off me ASAP?
2. Also, the counseling session was for RCR petition filed by him wherever he has started clearly that he wants his wife to join him back and handle her matrimonial responsibilities, however than why is he pleading in front of Judge to help him get rid of me, it was a hearing for a divorce case?
I think the Judge must have got influenced the way my husband had put in his good picture in front of him by putting all blames on me. And that’s why In spite of me requesting the Judge that I am ready to join my husband ( infact I am already staying at home and he is the one who has deserted me about 1 month back) he , w/o listening to my clarification, gave us a date of next hearing after1 month.
Now after coming out of the court, we come to know from some trusted sources that my husband and his family have actually filed RCR just to save their own skin and they want to end this marriage at any cost and their main intension to file for RCR is:
1. To show in court that they actually want to save this relationship but I am not fulfilling my matrimonial responsibilities.
2. To safeguard them against 498 as they are already ware whatever wrong they have done to me and I might take such action against them.
3. To get the decree in their favor (if I won’t accept the court’s order to join my husband on his conditions) so that later it can open their ways to file for mutual divorce and they don’t have to pay any alimony in that case. To fulfill their demands, my mother has already spent more than 18 lakhs in my marriage.
Now my concern is if in next hearing I still repeat the same thing that I am ready to join my husband, what can be the court’s judgment then? And can my husband still keep on denying that he doesn’t want to stay with me although the hearings are for RCR itself?
Also, the day my husband left home, he took with him my jewelry, my laptop, cylinder along with my car which my mother gave me in my marriage. No he is claiming that this car is his only and he is the one paying installments for it. However the truth is car is in my name, and each month the installments get deducted from my salary account only. My husband has all the relevant proofs and the RC of the car with him and I am all empty handed now and just have my bank statements as a proof that I am the owner of the car and paying its installments each month and photographs of sagan ceremony wherein my mother is handing over the car key to my husband (to show that it was actually given by mother to me as a gift in my marriage). My question is -How can I get back my car and claim on it my ownership? Is there a law wherein a woman can file a case on her husband/ in-laws to claim her belongings which they have criminally misappropriated?