Author,
I have read all your pleadings as well as (few) prudent minds suggestions.
My reply is very straight forward;
1. File DV Act case against your husband and in laws. Seek restraining Order + compensation of 18 L + return of car + s*xual harassment compensation.
2. You will lead a much happy life as your very last mail is suspended in duality after all rosy times 2 desperate pleadings to sustain a failed marriage.
Reasoning:
A person who wants to establish matrimonial home never asks que. on others point of view. You asked in several replies the same que. projecting yourself as ultimate savior of marriage, infact, also giving hint of money (materialism) too. I know from experience that it all boils down to "equating status' at the end of the day and your today's last message itself projects in last para just that. In not all marriage after meeting 18 L + car (I guess somewhere around another 6 L average sedan car cost that much) as dowry a wife gets physical + mental + financial + topping of s*xual harassment too all rolled into one fit!. And after all these a wife still wants to live in that family is slightly above board sadism talk is my view. A family giving 18 L dowry is status family and before giving that much amount they all do due diligence on prospective side of the family and if someone here tells me that it is not so then they are biggest hypocrites here, com’n Dowry and 498a laws have been around for some 2 + decades and experience handling such laws has given enough experience to smell such talks.
Anyhow….....these are besides the point
In one of my earlier post I did mention how potent a weapon RCR is all about if used rightly. Your husband is using it very rightly though few prudent mind may not admit on forum replies but I can see it coming your way from your very first message post in this thread, but kept quite just to read one mail where you talk of dowry and there it came madam in your very last post of today. Rest is all history madam!
You seems to be young and so does yoru husband from the smell of the post. A mam's boy even after living in nuleus shared household can't be chained to rosy love of a wife believe me. Just march ahead after collecting your stridhan (18 L + say 6 L for car) ......
Judge will grant him RCR but HE will no execute it and after cooling ‘period’ he will walk away with a divorce decree (it will be turn for an MCD take my early bird prediction now) and then if you file above case it will not be worth the waiting efforts hence follow the suggestions in para 1 and 2 with no further questions asked before much (menatal + your youth) is lost.
