Shall i register marriage or should i be single

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Originally posted by : raj
	I tried to convience a lot, but their parents will not allow her and she is also not interested. Now we are not staying together, but she has written a document while we were having issues. and the document written by her is as follows Letter 1:- Me and my husband can longer live together having understood our mentality being different and our mindset dont match to live together any further we wish to apply a mutul divorce and there is a financial dispute between the both families and an amount of ## lakhs has been given at the time of marriage and as promised by my husband it would be setteld after the divorce is issued. we are therefore clear about the divorce and there would not be any point of contact between the two individuals post divorce. amount written in words in down of the letter Date :-07/11/2015 wife ---> Husband ---> She didnt sign this document when she gave it to me and neither I. but it was written by her hand....... Please advice on this <---------- and there is an other letter written by her as I got visa this year, and document written is  Letter 2: I formally declare that I will not be applying for H4 visa i.e;(dependent visa) although my husaband holds h1b visa. I will be entering the u.s with Student visa i.e; F1 visa to pursue my higher education Please consider this as my letter of consent from my end and passport number #####. with her signature on this letter Now please advice is this fine for divorce without paying money to her or her family.

@Raj - If you had the first document signed, then both have accepted giving dowry and taking dowry. So both of you will be behind bars.

The documents above you mentioned are worth nothing....She can claim under pressure she has to write such a document...

How do you think in this Materialstic world Girls parents will accept divorce with out money.

This all nuissance and non sense. Better get rid of her by negotiating....Bargain like how you do in Fish or Vegetable market.... You should know where to pull off.

That will Save Time, Energy and Health...

https://www.wikihow.com/Negotiate

https://www.how-to-negotiate.com/

https://lifehacker.com/five-tips-to-negotiate-better-with-just-about-anyone-493106085

No point in giving any advice to you now.

You took money from her, you sold yourself, thats all.  No value for men who sell themselves by accepting dowry.  How else would the girl and her side treat you ?  They will treat you like shi t.

I condemn people who accept dowry and also give dowry.  If they are not ready to give divorce to you, and are waiting to file 498a, you too file case on them for giving dowry to you.  That should be in order.

Otherwise take MCD, terms of MCD better be discussed with your lawyer than on online forum.

Its advisable that you open one thread and post all your stories in it than opening new threads again and again.

Originally posted by : raj
	Thanks Prakash...For a person who watches my case it look like a deal but from end its all becasue of losing trust and hope and fear of their parents. Please advice as we both are working professionals and since my experience is more I'm getting little good salary than her, but am sure she can earn more than me when she reaches my years of experience. I'm planning to fly in december but because of this me and my parents are really afraid. I personally dont want to break but due to circumstances i'm really afraid

Well, its advisable to finish the MCD, take divorce and fly, give back what you have taken, sign the MCD petition, file it on same day, be present on second motion, take divorce decree later through lawyer.