I was married to a bariatric surgeon in chennai 5 years ago at the age of 28. i suffer from epilepsy and he is a type 1 diabetic.(I think that it is hidden from the medical community that he is a type 1 diabetic. it was known to both partners before marriage. After marriage I as the target of verbal, physical and s*xual abuse from my husband. He kept telling me that i am a stupid. His parents demanded dowry and said that the ornaments given by my parents was not upto their status. my husband used to put on p*rn videos and ask me to repeat all the acts according to the p*rn video. after one torturous night in the morning i flung a plate on his face. he got injured, but there were no stitches. his father called my father and my father told to send me back home in mumbai. After i came back to Mumbai i tried contacting him and saying sorry for throwing the plate. i called his parents and apologised. They were firm that they did not want me back. I filed for maintenance. The family court granted 20000, He filed for an RCR and filed a case int he High court that he is JOBLESS. The court demanded that he pay me rs. 10000 every month. in the meanwhile i have filed a DV case against him and his parents. I have received 2 lac from the court. Now the DV case is coming up. I don't want to go back to Chennai. Being a surgeon he can inject any kind of substance (insulin, which he injects on a daily basis) into my body and kill me. I am scared. There will be some kind of mediation now. Can i demand a seperate residence?. Will the court give me protection. In the meantime i have been diagonsed for ADHD which was not known to me before marriage. When i was depressed after coming back to my marital home, my parents took me to a psychiatrist. He said that i am suffering from ADHD. I am on medication now. What should i do? If i go to my matrimonial home and cohabit with him, and come back, how long will I have to wait for divorce by mutual consent and remarriage?
