Wife telling she will withdraw 498a, 506 and all the cases against me

I got married on 15-05-2014, my wife has lodged 498a,506 u/s 4,6 of dp act on 30/11/2015 and the charge sheet was done on 27/11/2017 after two years , knowing this i have sent a divorce notice to her on 30th june 2017 from karnataka state, bellary district where i reside and as a counter blast she has also filed a dvc on 07-aug-2017 and an RCR on 7-12-2017 at andra pradesh, kurnool district... the cases filed by wife are in Andra pradesh and i had got bail for them now as the divorce proceedings are going on, the judge is asking if she withdraws all the cases against you will u take her back....? I told i will not take her back after so much she had done with my life, even though if she withdraws the case or if she doesn't but for this my lawyer is telling me first accept it let her withdraw all the cases afterwards we will sit and talk he is telling like this, which i am not understanding why he is telling like this.... please help i definitely don't want to take her back