Hi,
This is my agony. This is the story how my dreams are about to collapse. This is the story why i feel i am on the verge of peril.
I had met this girl, who after a few days of friendship, proposed me and threatened me that she would commit suicide if i dont agree for her proposal. I called up her parents just to warn them that this is what she is saying and then later we both stopped talking. Later after few months, she asked sorry for what she did and she pleaded me to talk to her. I should not have agreed, but, .. I said ok.
Later for some reason, we started having s*x chat and then one fine day, she told me again that she loves me i told her i am not interested in love and stuff but ok for physical pleasure.
Initially it was good but later i felt i should not be in this kind of relation and tried hard to come out of it.
I know its mistake from my side not doing it completely. It was like i used to stop talking to her for few months or days and she would pester me again with all calls messages etc. Believe me in all the whole life, it was her who made calls for more than 3 years.
Then i met a girl of my life, i stopped talking to her and continued life with my girl. After like 7 or 8 months i learnt that my girl wont be able to lead her life with me since her parents started opposing our marriage. Out of frustration, i spoke to the other gal and then it all started again. But this time it was not as rampant as it was earlier.
I never said her i like her or i love her or i will marry her. It was just a physical intimacy we had between us. One fine day, she comes up with marriage proposal and tells me that she will die if she wont get married to me and all this. In all 3 years, she has seen like 10 guys and she never discussed that she desperately wanted to marry me. But all of a sudden, she started threatening me that she will commit suicide if i dont marry her. I thougth i will talk out her out of this. I called her to bus stand to meet her. She deliberately came late and also she insisted to go to my room. I said no, but she said she will go to her friends place and at 10.45 she told her friend might not be at home. I dint have any option other than taking her to my room. That day s*x happened. Later she threatened me that she might get pregnant and all that stuff. She again started threatening me that she would commit suicide. She threatened me that she will reveal everythig to my parents. I got scared and went to her parents to talk them out of this matter. This is one more mistake of mine.
I told them all the truth that happened between us and told them i dont want to marry her since i dont love her or any thing. By the way she was threatening me, i could not think of even talking to her. I told them upfront, that i dint tell her that i ws gonna marry her or i love her. I told everything. Her family recorded my conversation. I never thought some one would be very treacherous. She called up my parents and complained on me. They called me and i had to reveal what has happened with me and everything. They asked me to come home.
Its been more than 8 months since this has happened, i dint talk to her. They have tried many times to approach my parents. They went to head of our town showing him my recording as proof and asked him to do justice for them. He told them to leave that place and never meet him again. The gal went ahead and tried to complain in our town saying that i had made her promise that deceived her. I never promised her any crap since i dont have that feeling towards her. They asked to complain in city police station where all these incidents happened.
I am under lot of pressure. I know i have made a mistake in my life. But i dont want my family to be punished for all this. My entire career is at stake. I dont know could i do know to lessen all this suffering. They have ruined my family's name in the whole town entirely. Please advise me. I am ok with you bashing me, if you feel that i am the only one who is involved with the mistake and i deceived someone.
Thanks
