I am married for 6 months now. My wife & me have been living alone for the past 2 months. She has been
1. lying to me and to my family members even on petty things
2. Forming her own assumptions and stories that she is being ill-treated and
3. Blindly accusing my family members (especially my mother).
I have been telling her zillion times not to lie and to be open & honest (atleast)with me...not to form her own assumptions and conculsions etc.. but she never gave ears to this.
She and her family also spoke unparlimentary words against me and my family (her father called me a "Bastard", she mother called our family a "Bitch family" and my wife asked me "if i am a man/potent"). These words have hurt my feeling deeply. Now she and her parents state that they have realised the mistake and are willing to come back.
However i am not confident that she would have changed her attitude and ,honestly, have lost the trust in her. They are planning for a f2f session with our family shortly. Is it fine if i openly convey that
--> I have lost the trust in her
--> Since the way she spoke has hurt me emotionally, even if she comes back, i would continue to mind my own business (until such time my feelings are healed and i cannot say when) and wouldnt care for her.
Note: I am not against her coming back to my house. I can provide her only food, clothing and shelter and "nothing" more.
Can there proceeding be taken against me if i state the above?? I know taking such a decision within 6 mts of marriage might look foolish but i hope you all can understand the amount of mental torture i would have gone through to take such a painful decision.
