Can i take my kids

why you did not allow her to talk to her family?will you remain without talking to your family if your wife demands so?

Because they are misguiding her. That’s the reason the police said not to communicate.

if you were in her place would you obey police' instruction?

Hello queryist,

It is not wise to take your kids and run away to unknown place and live as you please.  You are the natural guardian and father, but the mother also has right to the children especially with the younger child who is 4 year old who needs to be with the physical custody of the mother unless she is proven to be incapable of taking care of the child for various reasons.   Emotions and crooked thoughts in the minds of the litigants can cause you severe problems like an Habeas Corpus Petition in the high court to produce the children (this is against the State, so the police are required to produce the children in the court).  

The correct thing to do for you, though is time consuming, is to approach the jurisdictional court and file under Section 7 GWA 1890 for declaration of the guardian and custody of the children.   You did not mention where the children are, and where the spouse is right now.   You have to let the children show their love towards you and also it should be established in the court that the welfare of the children is by staying with you.  

Some of the false criminal cases like 498A will cause arrest warrants, and you will be put to much hardship with the two kids.  I suggest apply only the legal methods as mentioned above. 

What is better for the kids future ?   A happy family with both the parents, good social life, and good schooling.   Try and see if counselling works for her either through the court or via social avenues.    If not then try for MCD and part ways with clear agreement on the kids.