Custody in case of divorce

Hi All;

I am going through a tough situation, my wife is having an affair and despite being acknowledge against me, she is not verymuch willing to continue on marriage.

I am very much scared and not sure what to do. She is some time try but i always find her talking to other person. We have a eight year kid and i am very much emotionally attached to him.

I want to very clear here,  i dont have any affair or any desire to take divorce incase she is fine to live with me but not like strangers. 

I have some questions, 

1. If my wife want to take divorce to marry the other guy what will be ground for the divorce. 

If your wife want to marry to someone else, i will not suggest you to contest the divorce, best option is mutual divorce.

2. If we agree on divorce for mental pieace as she either talk to me angerly or not talk, who will own child custody.

If you opt for mutual divorce then you both will decide,  and if you go to court then it will take decades to decide the court and before that you child will take her own decision.

3. She also has income, which is not enough to support child study but fine for her to survive. 

If you contest case against her then earning wife is not entitled for maintenaince and you can argue in court that both parents should contribute towards child maintenaince.

4. In case of her marriage and if i choose not to marry and want to keep my kid will court will favour me or her.

No one can say all will depends how you put your arguments before the court

I am in deep emitonal drainage due above issues can some one suggest legal complication and implecation of it.

 

Regards;

Vipk