hello...
KIndly help me. I am stuck in a marriage where my wife is not staying with me for past good 8-9 months. I am married to this girl in 2012 and since then we have been fighting over minor issues. she loves her work more than anybody else. she works from mon to sat in office and on sundays she either sleep for long hours or work on her laptop. what work she does on her system we have no clue. she prefered to spend time on her own and not with my family. only work she used to do for my family was baking chapatis in the whole day. still we didnot said any word to her, my family had always supported her in ll the ways and pressured e to give her time.
this years begging again we had a fight but this time she took it to the extreme. she called her family and we all tried to resove the matter but she was not in mood to listen to anybody. somehow I managed few more months tryin g to clm her down but all my efforts were wasted. we took her to her parents house to solve the matter but the situation cahnged completely. she and her mother statred abusing my family and used all false allegations on me and my family. even on my character. she refused to come bak with us, though we tried but she said she is not coming with us for the moment. her father also said let her e there as it will work as cooling period for hr. we tried t conatct the family and the girl but we didnot get any concrete response. this shattered us. they demanded that i should leave my family and starts staying with her alone for which i didnot agree.
later we stopped calling them but post july we tried all the means to reach them...relatives, social worker but no response from them. we were lucky to reached them in Oct..my family revisited her parents house but they couldnot meet her. her father demanded time till Nov to discuss things with her. we again conatcted them in Nov and we came to know that she is no more in India. she left India for some official project and se didnot inform me. which was very disturing for me and for my family. her family is continung with all the false allegations.
now her father is saying he will try to ask her again whats going in her mind.
we are stuck as we have no clue when she left from India and when is she coming back? whats going on in her mind and in her family mind?
kindly guide me how can I resolve this matter.
