see we can fight in person but the thing is it takes double the time wht it takes, many things many people wont give suppport in court they discourage you, i'll give one example i tried to get certified copies from court i filed on my own the copy department told it will take 7-10 days to give i went there after 2 weeks but still it was not done, some attender tells some one already taken, some says it is not done like that i waste one day searching for my certified copies, next day again i went to copy department thru some attender then they took xerox and gave it to me, just imagine y attender worked for me. so tht is why usually wht happens advocates try to prolong the case as much as he, even though we direct them they tell something else and escapes, so what i learned honestly is first gain clear knowledge about law and next big thing is try to get one honest lawyer and direct him and if he is cooperating with you then tht is enough you can think you won the case else if you wont spend time knowing the law the you will become scape goat for sure. i got contacted by someone from this forum i learned he already became a scape goat, everyone tried to loot him like anythig i really pity on tht guy.