Me and my wife file MCD in Aug 2019 court has given second date for Feb 2020 for second motion.I havent prepare my mind for divorce I need some more time to think on the same.I have already paid all the money which we have settled before filling MCD during first motion.I have understood that cooling period can be extended upto 18 months.Help is required on following points
1) What reason i can give to court to seek extension of time from 6 months to 18 months
2) what is the better option From the following
Option 1- Remain absent on the court dates till 18 months.In this case does court has power to dismiss the first motion due to continues absence before 18 months or court will wait till 18 months to dismiss the petetion
Option 2- Attend the court on asked date and request for extension of time till 18 months.In this case what reason i can give to court for time extension. Will wife side can raise any objection on my extension request.In this case how court take up matter