Illegal affair

You didn't mentioned what sort of legal relief you want ?

We couldn't stop her going our with other men... divorce is on pending(Adultery case) still she continues at parents home.. We are shame of society about this matter. what to do with my sister.... Shall we approach court or police  ? 

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Vicky, 

I am not a lawyer, so cant answer from legal perspectives. But common sense tells me that your family is also at fault. Sometimes  you have to let go and not possible to have cake and eat it too..

Lets understand what choices you have

1) Counsel her for not indulging in affairs with other men  which is best way if you could do that, this you can save your family reputation and kid will also stay with you.But it is she who has to decide whats best for her, or how to satisfy her s*xual needs. You can not force her in anyway , she is adult and if she wants to have s*xual relationship with others, she is free to do it. 

2) Send her out so that she can be independent, obviously her kid has to live with her..She knows whats best for her kid, or even her kid is not looked after well, you cant be responsble for it.

3) Ask her to marry another person instead of having mere s*xual relationship, which is better for your family as well as her too. 

1) yes we have advised zillion times not to indulge in extra marital affairs.... And we can feel for her.. But what to do 

2) if we try to send her out she is not willing to go.... She might spoil her daughter's life also...... She said she will darna infront of our house...... Spread bad about all our family members ... We are cornered......

3) We suggested her to remarry if she wants to . But Who will come forward to marry her if deliberately hide her past. the guy will complain about us later on...

Hi Vicky, I  am not a lawyer nor a counseller, but i just came across your issue..I totally agree with Kumar..Your sister is an adult and she has the right to live her life.Why don't you sit her down and have one on one chat with her.Ask her what does she want from her life and the future of her child.Tell her you can't change the past but you are willing to help her change her life for the better.Be kind to her and tell her in a nice way that her illegal affairs with different men will not find her a good spouse and will only ruine her life and her daughter future too..she need to take her life seriously ..tell men will not respect her and treat her well if she carried on life this..if she isn't wiling then ask her to support herself and live separately .i know isn't easy thing to do..but thats the only way your sister will come to her through senses.Hope this helps and make god help your family at this difficult time..

For few days she stays at home and promise us that her daughter life is more important than her marriage..

 

then again she starts roaming with men .She needs money money.... Spending became addiction to her......It even ashames her daughter also...

You can't do anything ......such females can't be changed easily.... Advancing age wd change it. Till then see that ancestral properties if any of your parents need to be disposed off sensibily so that lil kiddo wd secure her future rather than the money going in hands of spendthrift mom..... Rest.......a female of immoral character are difficult to improve

Nympho! Let her satisfy her natural urges and be happy.  

I am sorry neither you nor your family nor her husband diagnosed her actual problem.  She is suffering from psychological as well as physical problems and she requires treatment.  Once she gets she becomes normal and she can lead a very happy normal life.  Do not abandon her and take her to appropriate medical centre.

1. if she is educated then let her do a job for her living and also for her kid

2. let her do one or the other activity to change her behaviour 

3. discuss with her say your father or you or any other person whose words she listen 

4. talking to her and making her to change her behaviour for the sake of her kid is more important at this time and for her kid future and also your sister health is also important 

may be she is depressed by the actions going in her life from his married life which changed her life like this