ok i have a question , my husband used to stress me for divorce everytime ,i was so much pissed off ....this situation...he used to use fouls words on me and my family....he doesnt behave as man but he wants to show his manliness in puting me far and abusing me....so i explained whole this to my freind, she asked me to contact for chetanas, womens organisation in USA......then they asked me to record his voice .......i dont have a mobile with me at that time, so wen i went to walmart i bought recorder and kept aside and i dint record his voice.......one day he recognized it and hit me strongly , spitted on my face...he asked me to leave house, where i have to go?? i donno any one around, no indians der...i was on h4 dependent visa, no support ..he feared me like he will call police, i said ok, and police came and asked me .. i donno wat my husband told,,,,,i explained them wat happened and they left .............he stressed me lot to sign papers..but i was not willing..then i booked tickets to india and came to india..still i was not ready for divorce ..there is some intiation from elders ..again i am back to US..but i came to know that he is physicaly unfit for s*x...i forgoten of physical relation for 1 yr due to lot of disturbances in marriage regarding dowry, inlaws....wen i woke up it took nearly 2 yrs tht he is not intrested in s*x, in this 2 yrs we participated 4 times that too am not sure...we lived under same roof for 1.5yrs ,he sleeps in hall, am in bedroom or he maintains distance in bed.......i think marriage wont work any more.....but i been harassed by his family and him for 2 yrs ..wat abt that..they cheated me ..i am still in USA , looking for job, so that i can financialy with stand and take steps for divorce......but my inlaws should be punished for harassing me in india..even my husband...i dont need any money from them ..but they have to realise that they spolied a girl life