vivek (MANAGER) 10 January 2010

my brother marriage was usuccesfull

sir/madam,

my brother got married 3 months bbefore,both are working in an IT company.they are getting a lumpsum of money monthly.the problem here is basically ego.when my brother asks for account details she is saying why should i give you and also sayiny whether u are showing your transaction details.like this many problems are going on.he says to me that she is not respectfull to me(my brother).ANOTHER THINK IS WE ARE BORN ROMAN CATHOLIC,THEY ARE CSI

when we came from madurai to chennai for buying a plot for my brother we have to stay and fullfill the matter and afterwards i have a job in chennai as manager so i and my mother stayed with my brother home.and the girl has said to my brother we need i need only 3500 p m for me (in what sense did she told to my brother we dont no)like these she had spoked many words insulting my brother and us.

kindly provide me details

vivek

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Suchitra. S (Advocate) 10 January 2010

Let me know what is your question in particular.

N.K.Assumi (Advocate) 10 January 2010

Yes, as pointed out by Suchitra, give details including the manner as to how the marriage was solemnized etc.

vivek (MANAGER) 10 January 2010

actually what i mean was divorcee if she does not cooperate with our family

vivek (MANAGER) 10 January 2010

we also know when if we go for divocee it will spoil our family and also thier family.but in the sense of not changing her attitude and others how can my brother can live with her ,so kindly provide details

Suchitra. S (Advocate) 10 January 2010

First of all, it is a matter concerning your brother and his wife. Let them decide how to solve the differences in the family. Divorce should be the last resort and I dont think it is advisable at this juncture.

V. VASUDEVAN (LEGAL COUNSEL) 10 January 2010

i agree with suchitra's views. It is your brother's concern. When a person choose to marry a well qualified and employed women (vice versa). Both should have a broad mind and not get in to trivial issues. Prosperity comes with a tag! The best favour a brother and the family could do is let them appreciate each other and to be with them and be supportive. Once the basic appreciation between them and family flows you will see things in a totally different perspective advice.

Divorce is not an end and it could be an option when things are irretreivable.