Hello Every One.... My name is Yogesh and i live in Delhi. My wife left my house along with 7months daughter, i was a divorcee before this marriage and this is my love marriage and she knows about my divorce, this is her 5th instance when she leave my house and asking for divorce, now she didn't allow me to meet the child and all the time she is out of her mothers house for job interview and neglecting the care of infant ..she is totally under control of her mother (which is very bad women, abuses like men's and her husband ,my in-law is also totally under control of her) they live in rented house with less facility then me and my family gave to her..we live in joint family...in 100 yard house with fully furnished. my dad is in govt services and eared much for the house needs, we are three brothers and i am the eldest among them i also manage to earn well from my job.
Points of Arguments
1 she wanted to live separate (we currently living with my parents and they never asked me for money as we used used their food and every thing they can provide us).
2 Every month she has a new demand that she need gold earings, chain , gold ring, Buy a car and buy a plot (land), buy Oven buy a big screen mobile ( 2 phone changed since marriage in 1.5 yrs, costs over 15k ) , once she asked money for her sisters school admission when she about deliver a child . ( i had save some money for her delivery). by her demand i buy a 40inch LED, AC to fulfill her wishes, which i wasn't able to buy and has not much space for 40 inches LED ( she told me "40 toh 40 hi lena hai samjhe" )
3. Anonymously every month she asked me to drop her to his mothers house without any prior discussion and her mother didn't asked such things like ke "beta isko ghar par chod jana " her mother never called me till dated from marriage and both never share the reason for visitation ( 4 to 5 times in a month).
4 Every month i give her 2000 rs for her personal need and she asked for more ( which she collects and gave it to her mother, even i lend some money to them several time when they are in bad health) when i deny to give more money and asked her for the reason she never tell, instead asking for my expenses from the salary.
I know above all the reason is very stupid and funny ...but she argue with me and drag my family members between our arguments, and every time threatening me i will leave and filed case against you and your family, some times i ignored and some times its gets into my nerves.. now she is left my house and with my child.. two months ago i caught her red handed she used to talk her ex and many other boys.( i have call details proof). few days back i found that she asked to borrow money from her friends and few of them lend her ( was not under my knowledge).. to my utter surprise i found that her 10th and 12th certificates are fake registered with UP board ...i found different details on the same roll number which is mentioned on her docs..... Now i wanted to divorce her and take the child back...
Kindly suggest me
Regards
Yogesh Azad