I'm (42 yr) married since Jun,2009 and living with wife (38 yr), mother (62 yr) and 2 daughters (7 yr and 2 yr). The attitude of my wife is mostly angry and aggressive since our marriage. She behaves normally with non-family members, but she is rude and disrespectful towards me and my mother. Our relatives have consulted to her many times, but all in vain. Her parents only believe to her words, but they don't interfere much. We both are working, I am in private job and she is in govt job. My mother take care very well of our kids when we are out for work. My wife is a greedy woman and always tries to control my finance. The 90% of house expenses are borne by me (school fee, milk, electricity, house-maid, maintenance etc, mostly through bank account). Now as she has a good bank balance, so she has started threatening to be separate a take custody of kids. Even she has sent threatening messages on whatsapp to me that she will ruin my life. We don't have physical fight, but atmosphere is very tense between us and I am frustrated with this tense and turmoil life. Now future life is unbearable together. My mother alway says to me keep mum for our kids. Kids love very much to all of us, but I am worried about their mental health due to tense atmosphere at home. She is generating additional income from bribe and sharing with her parents and borther, I have no concern about that. Please suggest, should I go for a divorce or separation?
