My marriage was on nov-08 and one month after marriage she filed for Annulment/Divorce on grounds that I am impotent and mental patient which are entirely false allegations. I also filed for RCR denying all allegations. Since then the case was posted for counselling five times. On first two dates I was absent and both advocates and she was present. I appeared on 3rd date as it was on expiry of one year after marriage and 4th and 5th dates, but neither she nor her advocate was present on all these dates. I came to know that Judge had marked as Counselling Cancelled after 4th date and posted case for hearing on 5th date, but the file was still with cousellor and the case didnt come up before the Judge. As they were absent counsellor told me that the file will be sent back to Judge and case will be called before the Judge next date.
Now my question is that if they are dragging the case with out appearing in court, what could I do to speed up the case? Is counselling must or can I request the Judge to cancel the counselling session and proceed for trial? If request for cancelling counselling because of their non appearance, would It cause any harm to my side as filing RCR and requesting for cancelling the counselling is contradictory? What are legal actions that I can take for dragging the case and such false allegations which would destroy future? Can I first ask the court to sent me for medical checkup or Should I wait and ask them to prove their allegation during trial so that they would be forced to ask the court to send me for medical checkup? Which one is good if I plan to take legal action agaist them once I get decree in favoure of me? Please help.