Wife cheated , i want divorced

This itself is not sufficient for divorce. However it solely depends on the chat history and after reading, it can lead to conclusion for divorce or otherwise.

 

You need to speak with you wife if it is only a doubt in your mind.

You have to speak with your wife about your doubt. However this can be a good ground for divorce if she is having an affiar with her old friend. You may not require to pay the maintenance to your wife but have to pay for your child.

Conversation B/w My Wife And her Boyfriend:

My Wife : Hi whatsap
BF : nothing, I want to meet you yaar it has been logn time when we meet,
My Wife : that Sunday is good but you busy, (My wife call him for the same, I am out of station)
BF: oh yes but  at that time i was busy , if you informed me in davanced then this is possbile but suddenly it is not possible because i am busy,
My wife : ohhh, I also dont know that my Husbind going out of station in advanced,
suddunly they have some worked and go there,
BF : Ok,But for next time wheneve you got chance ,you will tell me in advanced so that i will  plan accordinlgy.
My Wife : yes sure ,

After 1 week

BF : is it possible to meet this sunday.
My Wife : No,My husbund will be at  home,
BF : Ok,but whenever you get chance please call me,
My Wife : yes definelty,
BF : you are still in My heart i love you....

My wife Also send him his latest photographs

what shoud i do....
please suggest me,

is it sufficient for not give her alimony money.

The chat does not show sound evidence of adultery..

need to understand each other...............

This chat record not sufficiect. Consult a lawyer, hire a detective, continue collecting as many more evidences as u can ......when u r done, go to the court.

put a camera at home, record all their activities.video evidence will help you

Pl face it pragmatically. You are husband and he is ex. If both of them meet now then quite likely things will be not to your likings. I am against the suggestions given in some of the responses, that is hire detective etc..this way you are letting them get into each other, it will damage you and will damage your kid too. So talk to her first, with love and understanding, and of course showing some sternness.

Thanks All for you Replay,

As i have discussed above matter with her parents,

They told me that they are ready to give me Notary on stamp paper   with written that if this will happen again then you will give her divorced  and not given any alimony money and alos take baby boy with you,

is it Good or Not,if this happen again than this notary will help me or not.?

Please replay.

 

Originally posted by : Sara Patel
	Thanks All for you Replay, As i have discussed above matter with her parents, They told me that they are ready to give me Notary on stamp paper   with written that if this will happen again then you will give her divorced  and not given any alimony money and alos take baby boy with you, is it Good or Not,if this happen again than this notary will help me or not.? Please replay.

Obtain the signatures of your wife and if possible some third party elders too.

Show this stamp paper to police inspector and to the wife as well as parents of boy friend and clearly mention if in future its repeated then he will be behind bars

YOu have to install hidden spyig software in her mobile, and monitor the activity. That notorized document will not do anything in court, if she is caught again all her family will be on her side take it from me...no matter how good her parents are no matter how decent they are they will always side their daughter and will do everything to prevent the marrige from breaking down. 

So, you have to collect hard evidence, try I used the truthspy software and worked wonders for me....

Life 's goal should not be to spy on your partner. That is childish. If there is no love and she wants to be someone else...set her free.  Find someone who wants to love you.  The divorce laws in India needs to be changed as soon as possible to liberate people from loveless,s*xless marriages where everyone is suffering.  Dont waste your precious life spying on a woman....there are better things to do in life.  

Hi, 

Gone through your story & really sorry for that. I can understand your mental situation as I am also one of same victim but in some other way. This feeling is like a slow poison which will kill you from your office, family & friends. In my case, when I had shown pics to her parents, they are telling photoshop. Also like me, your biggest weakness is your son. 

However my suggestion in your case, check urself, have u ever cheated her in ur married life. Do not reply us but think, have you ever??And if yes then definately she deserve a chance and if not then also she deserve on the ground of that stamp papers.We r human not god yaar, anyone can do mistake so should give one chance. 

Rest upto u. However, whatevr the way u will go, I hope ur best in that.