Read the act .....Section 21 in The Protection Of Women From Domestic Violence Act, 2005
21. Custody orders.- Notwithstanding anything contained in any other law for the time being in force, the Magistrate may, at any stage of hearing of the application for protection order or for any other relief under this Act grant temporary custody of any child or children to the aggrieved person or the person making an application on her behalf and specify, if necessary, the arrangements for visit of such child or children by the respondent: Provided that if the Magistrate is of the opinion that any visit of the respondent may be harmful to the interests of the child or children, the Magistrate shall refuse to allow such visit.
Even though the opposite counsel has conveyed that there is 498 A etc against you you have not yet been convicted of the same . The act clearly states than the magistrate can make arrangements for the visit by the respondent . Even criminals are given visitation rights for their children under supervision maybe you can get the same at a police station .Join SIFF PUNE Chapter they meet at Shambaji park 4 to 6 p.m on sundays near the aquarium .