Divorce 13(1)(1a)

Congratulation Sir..

First of all, you're THE MOST LUCKIEST PERSON in India (cosidering present scenario). I really wish you both a great future ahead.

to answer your quries.

• How should I proceed further, so that there wont be any legal problems, if she repeats the same? - Relationships are based on trust on on the basis of any paper documents which she might or might not give. even if, she gives such commitments in writing, what if you turn your back to her and make life miserable for her, will not she have the right to file a case against you? Is that you want? - Hence, ask yourself, what you really want? answer should be very simple in your mind "Yes/No". Both the answers will have consequences and you both have to face them.
• After she joins me, If she continues her earlier actions, can I file divorce again, on same grounds? - why to give her such chance to do anything such? if you love her enough, she will not even have such time even to think anything like this to do with you or your family. Equally, you must also understand, each of her actions and re-actions and take a step further to solve if she has any complications in her mind. After all these efforts, if she does that, you already know the process, plus this time, you would in a better position cause, you might have her write-ups for previous false allegations & cruel intentions.
• I am really in dilemma….Is it right to get her back? Can I restrict her not to meet her parents?  - you can not stop/ you should not stop her to meet her parents, you're not the couple who taken the pain to give birth to her & neither you're her owner. She should meet her parents, but, for at least some time, you need to accompany her to your in-laws place, travel together. Have some purpose (like festivals, death, any rituals etc only) slowly, if you see any progress in their attitude towards you and then you can be comfortable.
• Only one suggestion - Dont be suspecious, be catious...... as per me, you're blessed. Enjoy it. hardly guys get a luck like you, God Bless Sir..!!

P.S. I'm not legal advisor/ neither advocates, I'm a sufferer a half married man....!!

@ I Walk alone....i am not suspicious, i have raised my query, bcos she has the habit of breaking the promise. Earlier, before approching court for divorce, my issues were discussed in front of elders trice, and verbally in front of all she said sorry and promised things wont repeat. Only difference now is, she is telling that she will give in writing.

Sir,

Still my suggestion will remain same, additionally you can ensure 1 last thing, you 2 sit alone and ask her - What triggers her to do so what she did with you in the past? Understand what made her to take such step against you and if there is any family member (from her side) is involved, you must make that person understand to MIND HIS/HER OWN BUSINESS in front of your wife.

Whatsoever the case may be, you will have the statement of false allegation in writing from your wife, hence, you must not worry & live a happier life with her.

@Life - Relationships are very subtle now a days. 

I agree with Walk alone. You should not restrict her going to her Parents house.

Some suggest a known devil is better than unknown.

But my question here is Can you and your family manage your wife. (Survive with your wife).

Both has to adjust and go. 

Past is a History. Future is a Mystery. and today is a gift that is what you called Present.

 

Some people are unpredictable and repeat the same mistakes again and again. You will find such people everywhere around you.

 

If you accept she will NOT change then it will be easier for you to change the way you deal with her to make things work for both of you.

 

For a relationship like yours to survive one of the partner has to take a step back and handle /tolerate the other partners behavior (to a tolerable extent ofcourse) than to get into a blame game. You need to askyourself if you can make some changes in your way of handling her/behavior than expecting her to give you certain resolutions to be followed in writing.

 

Im assuming your wife is as normal a person like you or me and not a person with mental issues ,if otherwise then nothing can be done!!