Dear Shiva,
You are so lucky that you have got such a good wife even knowing that after giving divorce to you her life will become hell for her than too she is supporting you. Try to understand it in practical way if she can support you in this type how much she will be supportive to you in your whole life. What i will suggest you to dont divorce her. Everyone have some difficult phase in their life but after every dark night there is alway morning (Hope of light). better you discuss your problems with her and tell her to advice you somthing to come out from this situation as womens are the best decision maker and easily adjustable to any situation so she will definately will help you and one day you your self will love her for her best.
Go to any hill station with her start indulging physically as she too had some dreams for her husband.
So start enjoying your married life and think positive.
Remember if you think you can you are right and if you think you cant you are right.
