Divorce cases should be finished in shortest time

1. Agreed.
2. Your crime is you kept quite in 70's still fresh from graduation to keep quite when such Laws were popping out being prudent mind then.
3. Hence Newton's Third Law of motion is a gift one gives to oneself.

BTW I did not see (by above membership registered name)  any of your discussion papers with Parliament Select Committee when IrBM was discussed in Parliament!

Nevertheless appreciate your concerns.

Madhu Sir, goodafternoon!.

How are you?

Welcome to LCI.

Meet your Judwa bhai Tajobsindia.

Nice that you are a doctor and he is in multi- profession

But I think your Jodi will be great colorful one as your passion is same!

oja ji,

welcome to LCI.

Aapko dekhke yaha ke ek puraane member D.arun kumar ki yaad aa gayi.you resemble him v.much.he was also an intellectual like you and liked to dicuss several topics like these but got banned unfortunately for speaking the truth

Hello Madhuji,

If i recall it correctly, forum member named Amit filed writ petitition (i think section 21B) for expediting his case of nullify the marriage in high court and it was approved. He got direction to get the case disposed in 6 months.

You may try the same ..mentioning extreme hardships ...

true

21B helps.

Why dont you patch up with your wife?She might feel the same with you..

Do you have kids?

Why don't go for mediation again?

Dr Ojha has raised quite a pratical point. Delaying divorce to the dead marriages gives way to matrimonial crimes. It decreases the productivity of the nation as such. Marriages may fail........reasons may be many. Reconciliation efforts no doubt are very very necessary...........but courts must keep a watch on CLOCK too.

As far as 21sec is concerned, even after getting speed-up oredrs, contested divorce is stil rarely granted. Courts do nt see that rejecting a contested divorce never ensures resumption of matrimony. The fed up husband looks for a bigger risk to take to escape from company of such a "wife" whom she fought tooth n nail in courts/police for all these yrs.

Divorce shud not be seen as a blot on society, rather it shud be seen as a remady to end dead marraiges formally.

I am very positive i remained positive with her for almost 26 yrs She took it as my weakness and stupidity I cannot live with a person like hers its better to pass away from world rather than to have a companion/partner like her. She is good in her own idea I dont deny She may be very good for some one with whom her thingking may be matching. She has not left any thing as far as court proceedigs are concerned She went to Income Tax commissioners in person and gave complaint in writing to reopen my IT returns of several yrs Now she has no bullet in her rivolver Her game is finished Now my game starts I dont want to leave after 7 yrs of hard work and as such after tolerating for 26 yrs before too. Thank You for yr suggestion but its not possible now I dont like to pretend My daughters are with her and for financial necessitites they approach me and I fulfill their requirements time to time Its my duty even if court has ordered to pay only 3000+2000 = 5000 per month in all to the wife and daughter But I dont care for that amount I dont want to leave my positive attitude Thank You Dr Oza

Thank You 

Thank You Mr Lodha for appreciating my views Who will bring to the notice of the deaf govt to look into this matter soonest Thank You Dr Oza

Do you think divorce would bring any changes in your life..??You are already  61..

I don't think in this age you need a s*x partner..

Thank you for yr comment Divorce will make a lot of difference Most of the couple in India are mentally divorced but they are pretending to be happy in their marriages. They just pull on as I did for 26 yrs thinking about my daughters future mental trauma due to our divorce But my so called wife took it as stupidity and weakness on my part and initiated litigations. She has filed all proceedings possible under all sections of prowoman laws. If I am such a bad husband that she had to file against me so many cases in court (actually to extort money from me) why she is holding up on me in divorce case? why she does not give consent to divorce even if she has realised her mistake and knows that this marriage is never going to be repaired.

She has in her own hand writings with her signature asked for one and a half crore Rs for relieving me from the present bondage of Marriage. Marriage is the Legal License given to a woman by Govt of India to Extort money and wealth from her husband and my wife is a living proof of the same. 

I have mentioned in my write up that one has to experience what I am going through  to understand the importance if divorce in cases like mine. If U are a woman U may not be able to understand. It will give me a great relief and feeling of freedom after divorce. Attending courts is a negative energy. Regarding s*x at the age of 61 I would tell u its a function of mind and not of body (genitalia) Please know that as far as man is concerned he needs romance warmth of spouce s*x and conjugal life even at 80 or 90 Men dont have menopause I mean there is no masculine menopause No equivalent term for Men as is menopause for women. 

Sir,

you mentioned 7 yrs in your case.it is not the mistake of MP and minister.mistake of advocate.they only drag it for years together.if the advocate finish the case then how they get money,if the divorce is mutual after one year of marital life it can be  completed in 3 -6 months period but advocate drag for many years.

it is bitter truth.

https://www.lawyersclubindia.com/forum/Havenot-heard-of-saurabh-v-for-a-while-hope-all-well-67643.asp

Madhu uncle, I request your valuable inputs to the above link.

Thankyou.