Hello,
This is Mujahid from Mumbai.
I am suffering from very bad situations in my life. From the beginning of marriage my wife and her parents created lots of problems. Then many time meetings done between my wife's and my families to resolve the matter but at the end still my wife's behaviour is not good with me and my family members. My family was alway positive, with the hope matter would be resolved later. After some months of marriage, my wife started argument and quarrelling and I and my family always tried normalise the situation by ignoring her bahaviour.
But when she gone to her parents house she files a case in Mahila aayog against me and my 4 family members. In Mahila aayog case, me and my family attended all meeting sessions at mahila aayog. After that he filled domestic violence case, after 5 days maintenance case (total 3 cases). Even she included my 18 year old sister and my heart patient mother, in DV case. Through these cases they only intended to torture me and my family. But still my family always agree to keep her, not to divorce her because they don't want to make things bad. In mahila aayog after lots of time they agree to send my wife with me because of mahila aayog pressure. And we brought her back to our home. Things going good for some days. Again my wife started fighting and arguments with everyone in my house, she didn't respect me, parents and my other family mothers. Again she given threat to involve in court cases to me and my family and demanded separate house with me only. She said to me that she don't want my mother and my family.. she don't want to live with them. After this and lots of things happened before, me and my family were got mentally tortured because of my wife and her parents.
Finally I decided NOT TO KEEP HER WITH ME as a wife. She don't want to come here till I not renting separate house without my parents. So I decided to go for second marriage. Please suggest me, is it OK to do second marriage as per Muslim law? I dont want divorce my wife, because now a days it is made difficult to divorce in new amended laws for a Muslim husband.
I don't want to live with my wife anymore.
Please give your suggestions.
Yes you can go for second marraige without divorcing the first wife as governed under Muslim Personal law.There is no bar as such.
However if you want to divorce your first wife it is better to issue a notice to her and settle the thnigs by socail mediation .
