Dear Sir,
I am Monika married in Nov'13 have a daughter of 18months. working and earning 20K. Right after marriage I realized that my mother in law chose me for her son because she needed my salary every month. She asked for salary many times politely, rudely and by involving my husb and his father in regular arguments.
Mother in law is earning about35K from her own coaching institute since last 30/35years and father in law gets 15K + husband earns 28k+ Sis in law earns 10-12k. All those amount of salary goes to my mother in law that is about 80K per month. My husband does not give even a penny to me infact he favors his mother.
I need to do job to earn something for myself and daughter aswell so I requested my mother in law to take care of her she denied so I started giving 3K to my mother in law.
I also need to do household works during morning and after coming from office but my mother in law is not happy as I am not giving full salary to her.
She keeps abusing me and involve her neighbors aswell. Infact once my sister in law who is 6yrs younger than me abused so I tried to slap her before I could do that my husband stopped me and I was beaten badly. A neighbor who is working in tis hazari court advised Mother in law to debarred me, husband and daughter from property so she did that. That neighbor also asked me to leave home else I will be thrown out as she has good approaches with judge and lawyers in the court. She is assistant of judge she said.
Now as she has given a notice of debarring me quarrels on daily basis and ask me to leave home. I am scared that if I leave that home she will ask my husband to file for divorce as her son follows her mother.
I don't have father and my mother is of 65yrs. Brothers will not take care of me and baby for whole life as they have their own family
I have tried speaking with my husband many times but he only favors his mother and sister. I need my husband to give good life to my daughter who is only 18months.
If I leave that home It will be really tough for me to make home in this salary.
I have no option so I leave my daughter with my mother in law and recently a neighbor told my that my mother in law and Sis in law beats my baby also.
I am trying to save my salary for my daughter's admission in a good school after she is 3yrs.
She wants to give this home to her daughter then where should I go?
I was not told anything before marriage else I would have chose to spend life alone now I have baby that too a daughter who needs more safety than a boy. I need a family for her I cannot leave her alone while I am going to work as the daily news that I read for baby girls have threatened me. I am helpless. Kindly advise I want to stay in that home with my daughter for lifelong.
Regards
MOnika
