Husband filed for restitution of conjugal right after abandoning pregnant wife

Sister you have to decide ,you want to continue with such a man like thing who abandoned you when you need him most?

However if you think he is changed enough that he will give all that respect and love to you and his daugher ,besides he will never ever desert you then prefer to accept the restitution or otherwise just resist the restitution, present the divorce deed if you copy with you in court and get divorce officially .

If you can maintain yourself  that is fine or just file a maintenance application and recove dues from the date he abandoned you.

Just think about your future seriuosly as this is the time very crucail for you  and think time and agin before taking any decsion.......

First off all its up to you whether you want to get seperate from your husband or want to seek divorce from him. If you want to end the your marriage you may claim maintainance for you and your child as well and you can also made a complaint of 498a in police station.

Advocate Lakshya Manchanda

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email: lakshyamanchanda2709@gmail.com 

Thanks for the reply, i am thinking of giving him another chance for the sake of our daughter. Can i put my conditions in front of court that if he promises to stop drinking and smoking and takes the responsibility of me and my daughter then I will live with him. Also, do i get to decide where to live? because i donot wish to live with my inlaws because:

1) I never resisded there after marriage because the house does not have a toilet

2) The house it too small for a family of (mother, father, 3 sons, daughter in law & child (me and my daughter), their daugher + son in law who keep visiting always

3) they used to taunt me for dowry whenever i used to visit them during weekends

Thanks for the reply, i am thinking of giving him another chance for the sake of our daughter. Can i put my conditions in front of court that if he promises to stop drinking and smoking and takes the responsibility of me and my daughter (even though i am earning) coz he had earlier refused to take any financial responsibility, then I will live with him. Also, do i get to decide where to live? because i donot wish to live with my inlaws since:

1) I never resisded there after marriage because the house does not have a toilet

2) The house it too small for a family of (mother, father, 3 sons, daughter in law & child (me and my daughter), their daugher + son in law who keep visiting always

3) they used to taunt me for dowry whenever i used to visit them during weekends

Thanks for the reply, i am thinking of giving him another chance for the sake of our daughter. Can i put my conditions in front of court that if he promises to stop drinking and smoking and takes the responsibility of me and my daughter (even though i am earning) coz he had earlier refused to take any financial responsibility, then I will live with him. Also, do i get to decide where to live? because i donot wish to live with my inlaws since:

1) I never resisded there after marriage because the house does not have a toilet

2) The house it too small for a family of (mother, father, 3 sons, daughter in law & child (me and my daughter), their daugher + son in law who keep visiting always

3) they used to taunt me for dowry whenever i used to visit them during weekends

A person addicted to drinking and smoking is not likely to give up. I am all for husband and wife living together. But the narration of your experience is not very encouraging. It is a very difficult decision that you have to take. Have you got brothers and sisters? Consult all close relatives and well-wishers and take decision. I wish you and your daughter all good luck.