Thanking all again for the support so far. I have come to know through my lawyer that the order is dismissed on the basis that I am a working woman.
But since he deserted me I worked hardly for an year dat is from mid 2009 to early 2010
and after that because of my illness which is caused by my mental condition
You will not be entitled to any kind of alimony even if you state mental illness as a reason for not going to work.
On the contrary, this will become a ground for divorce as you, yourself are stating that you have mental illness due to circumstances, which may return in time or not.
, i have stopped working and am purely under medication.
A wife who is capable of earning money cannot show that she is a lazy a s s to just claim alimony, Lots of citations from SC here.
Since 2010 I am not working and I have all the medical bills which make up to a tune of 3 lacs paid by my parents to prove. My lawyer suggested that he would re appeal again,
A wife who is capable of earning money cannot show that she is a lazy a s s to just claim alimony, Lots of citations from SC here.
Lawyer extracting money. Change lawyer.
so I wanted to know to what extent this may work out, with a positive hope.
And seriously speaking am not interested in all these, after wasting 4 years of my life because of this I am really fed up and vexed to the core, how can I proceed further to have a full and final settlement of the dowry which I gave and how to get my divorce done on a faster pace.
Uh ho. You want to get your streedhan back, if so, you should have reciepts as to what you gave.
Fake bills not accepeted, even if, your case to claim your streedhan will fall like a pack of cards, or biscuits as you may wish to term it.. and let me remind you. this is not that easy as read by you,
It takes a lot of time to do this circus which you supposedly plan to do.
I am really not expecting any monetary benefits from him at all,
Your statements are contradictory, For best known reason to you alone.
Either ask money, or dont.
this is only for my parents satisfaction as I dont want them to be in loss in all aspects because of me.
Loss? HUH... its not business proposition dear to calculate loss, the biggest loss would be for your parents is that you are not able to have a married life even now. Forget money.
I am fighting this worse situation of my life only for them. Please guide me..Thanks in advance
Guidance:
Take my word for it,
1. Go for mutual consent divorce aka MCD. Best way out.
2. Wanna cohabit, consider, reconciliation.
Be it 1 or 2 stick to it.
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