Maintenance to 498(a) wife

all members who got 498a as a gift from their wives for ur kind information i didnt or will not file any type of case on my husband not even 498a or dawry etc

@i am nobody. by changing names over here will not change your destiny. You are saying that u hv nt lodge any case or complaint against your husband. if its true then what the hell you are doing over here.? in one of your recent posts u mentioned that you lodge a police complaint against your husband.  n now you expect your husband to accept you back after humiliating him in PS. Once you shoot an arrow, dont expect the arrow to come back in to your bow again. If ur husband is a wise man, he will not accept you back ever. A suggestion to your husband better teach this type of lady a strong lesson and dont ever accept her back as accepting her back will not only ruin his life and also this relation will be totally loveless and she will make the life of their in laws a living hell. I pray to GOD better their brother's wives lodge cases on their brothers and even their mother file cases on their father's . Then these type of ladies will realise what they have done to their in laws.

NEVER EVER FORGIVE THESE TYPE OF LADIES AS THESE LADIES ARE JUST LIKE A TALE OF A DOG, WHICH WILL NEVER BECOME STRAIGHT.....

jack why are u being aggressive with me u may GOD bless u with happiness ahead so that u learn to respect women...their is no need to shout on me ...my husband and child is lucky..with grace of GOD they are safe now coz i m with them alwaysto give them protection...and in punjabi 

apniya gharvaliyan nu rovo jehriya tuhada siyapa thik taran kar rahiyan ne 

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@nobody. What a decent and polite reply from your side which is showing your decency and politeness that you might have used against your husband and in laws too. Thats show ur character and family background too. Thats what your parents taught you? I think ur husband is quite right for not accepting such a polite and decent gal. I knw a bit of punjabi. I am sure u hv done some syapa with ur husband thats y u r freaking over here. now better u do syapa of ur husband for not accepting u back after lot of suffering.

You have choosen ur ID "i am nobody" very righty as u r such a nobody. Oh really respect for women like you. If you are with your husband then why are freaking over here. I think u r a big tharki type of gal and love to talk to males just for fun sake. If you are interested i hv no prblm. just say straight away...

n hey syapa gal better change ur ID  "i am a syapa gal"

if the wife is really innocent and any how dispute arise then it should not be drag into court it  should be sort out amicalby.

if wife is going to court for such cases better to say false cases then she herself no need to go back to her husband house.

as gents are always act with mind , and they better know what kind of world , cruel world outside the house for woman so for the sake of saving her family and wife some time he surrenders but wife take undue advantage of it... this should not be happen

if " i am nobody " is correct then better she should concentrate on her house , leave this forum for sufferes and live happily with her family.

@ jack , sir please let her do anything if she is doing it by frustration then let her, actually she alleging that we mens are frutstrated , but it is wrong men or sufferes of false cases finding  the way and guiding others.we are not here for same fight from which we are out now as our  wives are at her parents house and now wifes realise the difference between between father and husband,

Originally posted by : i am nobody
	helping hand sir plz guied them not misguied him ..agar kissi ka ghar basta hai to basne doo...ap kyu aesi salah de rahe ho? child need both of the parents to grow up correctly otherwise he will be a tottaly confused personality..men bache pal to lenge.bt emotional support unhe maa hi de sakti hai.or FVUACKI sir plz bache ko uski maa se alag na karna.....

If they ie the querist and his wife would have such need in each other, they would have somehow solved each problem together, not like this. This is a legal forum. Nobody comes here to do timepass.  perhaps you do, but that is of no concern to me.

If the querist and his wife would have thought about the child and its future, neither of them would have taken this extreme step.

Remember, once a man or woman approaches a court for divorce, dont think it as a decision taken in urgency, but it is a well thought decision.  Sadly, kids have to bear the burnt of what their parents do.