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NEERAJ KUMAR   04 May 2016

Marriage problem

I have been married on 26 Nov 2014 and got engaged in May 2014 ,it was a pure arrange marriage.We were never compatible and had less talk over phone after engagement.I can always feel that we are not made for each other.I narrated the problem but my family told that things will be normal after marriage.But things didnt work out after marriage too.She had a very childish, immature,selfish behaviour .Their parents and family never gave me the place which i deserve.I wanted a family so i opted for arrange marriage.I tried my level best to make the things normal but her family interference was too much .She always wanted to go her parents house and she did many times.But last visit was about six months at a stretch that is from Oct 2015-March 15.We had hardly any conversation aur messages.And hardly conversations were not healthy.Irony of the fact that we had no physical relation till date.Now i m fatigue and want to overcome from this relation.So please guide what to do now.


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saravanan s (legal advisor)     04 May 2016

has she returned to the matrimonial home or not.if not allow her to stay in her home as long as she wants.see whether she changes her attitude within two years from the time she left your home. if not you can file divorce on the grounds if desertion.if you don't want to cohabit and you are determined to end your relationship then you can file a contested divorce case on the grounds of cruelty

Laxmi Kant Joshi (Advocate )     04 May 2016

Talk to her, her parents, her respected relatives and comman man about your sour relationship if she changes herself and lived with you happily then its o.k. otherwise if you don't want to live with her then you can file divorce on the ground of cruelty, first try to save your married life if failed only then think for divorce, because it is worst part of life it will spoil lots of precious years from your life .

A walk alone (-)     15 May 2016

I think problem started before marriage. You dnt like her before marriage and got married because of family. Marriage is not a game. If you dnt like her then why you get married. You have spoil two lifes yours and her. If you say that she is immature then what you have done doesn't immature. If you think that you are mature then try to adjust with her. Try to call message her because after marriage she is your responsibility. The thing you are thinking now you should think before marriage. If she went her parents many time may be she is not getting love and affection from you. Its very easy to get divorce and overcome from this situation. But think what you have done. You have done blunder spoil someone life. Because before marriage you dnt like her and understand things will not work. Its very easy to get married but its difficult to maintain relationship. you make to maintain relationship its lie. If someone dnt like relationship from starting then he can never make efforts to save or maintain it. You done marriage in family pressure now you want divorce.

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