Hi Saurav, Certainly my mother and flat is important to me. Because they both are with me and my wife ran away leaving me behind. I want her back because of kid not because of her. Btw everything have its own advantage, now i started loving and caring myself and also enjoy myself. So somewhat i am glad she left me.
But whenever i think about kid i feel bad. Because i don’t want that he loses anything due to our relation. That is the only thing with force me to bring her that stupid lady.
And about date, i tried hard and met her 20time outside her school she seems now become more confused short tampered and greedy. I think hard time always teaches good and bad ...she learnt about bad.
She try to ignore me and want me to come to her home to pick her up. Now as said earlier her family is the major reason behind this mess. And no one from my family speaks with them. They do bad mouthing. I asked her why you insist me to come and pick. When you ran away that time to you were alone. Now what happen now? I think pressure is from her extended family also.
They are not educated people. Most of them are into small shop so have enough time for these entire things.
Now if I call her she disconnects my phone. they only way is to go to her school and wait outside and catch her there. Which i feel is really stupid.
What a mess i have created.. :(
I asked her you wanna live separate she said “NO”
Now let me tell you the reason, home where i live have all the facilities. In rented accommodation she wont find that.....lol gals become extra smart now.
Only thing that bothers me is why she don’t talk and why she only want me to come and pick her up. It’s been 2 yrs now and she is keep on doing same thing.
If she wants divorce she can easily get. She knows that i will give it right away. Just check her thinking if i go to gym she says you maintain yourself so that you can find another gal easily after divorce. This is what she says. I am stuck with immature women and i already failed after marriage to make understanding between us. So i am also kind of scared of losing my peace of mind.