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I have 7 year old marriage and 3 year old son. My wife left me last year ( now has been 1.5 year). I and my family tried but no fruitful result. I filed RCR this year and reciprocally she filed mainiainence for son (also there her lawyer alleged me of many false allegation like phsical and mental abuse, dowry , not giving basic thing). her salary is 75k and my is 1.5 lakh per month.
She filed transfer petition in SC ( as i and she now live in different state) but I tooks case back based on her assurance that she will come back. Now SC will decide on TP. She has not taken her case back but I appeared in court and told that I will give some fixed amount. She said many time she do not want money but I do not know her intention apart from harrasing me to go to her city. She says many time she will come back but no concrete plan from her side. She has become very active on social networking site, chatting and start meeting her old male friend/college openly. She says she will meet , talk , chat whatever she want till its not legal. But in relationship just legal thing is not suffice.Please advice me what to do.? What i want in future?
1. No or zero impact on my child.
Your intentions are good, but they wont stand a chance given the situation. The child will be torn into pieces as time passes by, due to the cases you will be facing, namely the divorce case, maintenance petition, custody case, and the child visitation rights case. As your wife is earning, she will be denied maintenance, look for my previous posts where I have posted SC judgements and make use of it. You have to give bank statement, address of her employer, her latest 4 x 6 photo in case court wants to summon her employer or ask for call of records from her employer, to that effect.
2. if she is Ok to come then come quickly. If she do not want to come , I want MCD. But she said she will not leave me in any case till life.
Lure her with money, even a corpse will start dancing if you show it money, your wife is nothing, she too will agree for MCD, if you have the right bargaining skills and a hefty bank balance. However, if you are a miser, then the wife will not give you MCD< you will have to get divorce the harder way by contesting it, contested divorce takes minimum 7-8 years to get over.
3. I will not give no money till she ask politely and in amicable way ( not through court).
You may expect her to fall to your feet and ask for money, but she wont do it, its a dream, wake up. She will file all sorts of criminal cases and you will become old in court. However, you may orally tell this to judge, asking judge to ask wife to ask you politely, if the judge may listen to you.
4. I want to settle all issue sooner as its mental torture.
Righto. But its not a one man show, there is also a woman involved in here. Her consent is very much necessary to get this over with. SO, convince wife, ask her politely to give you divorce, for she may accept your words and agree to divorce you.
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