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bibiana (Executive Secretary)     13 March 2015

Need advise

Dear Sir,

Would like you to advise for a good friend married for 4 yrs could not get along no kids involved and no physical relationship for a year .

wife has left and gone abroad to work understand for 2 years. he wants to file for divorce but his mother wants him to continue the relationship due to her respect etc. Mother is very influential and he is staying separate but in his mother's house. She threatening to put robbery case and other allegations bigamy etc. if he does not maintain his relationship with his wife. he does not want to continue living in the mother's house but is forced to fearing all the allegations keeping in mind her influence politically.

kindly advise asap as he is totally depressed and cannot work, eat, sleep and wants to get out of this relationship

Thanks



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Adv k . mahesh (advocate)     13 March 2015

it is his life and why he is fearing of bigamy 

thus his mother maybe influential person why is she threataninig his son for the same first let you meet a local lawyer for the better advice personally 

and about her wife for only no children divorce will not be granted and already four years of marriage and two years of separation on that you can file 

bibiana (Executive Secretary)     13 March 2015

his life yes but mother says she does not to spoil her name and respect in the area etc.

wife and he not getting along totally incompatible infact the mother only guided her to go abroad and make her life saying she would manage to convince him to join her which he does not want. 

mother threatening him with false allegations what precaution can he take to move on without mother interfering. she is supporting the wife only cause of her name and respect that's it and knowing her will go to any extent.

To avoid any accusation and settle things in a good way please suggest a way out. 

Also on the divorce procedure as now wife has just recently gone last month. they were married for 4 years totally she has just gone last month abroad mother saying for 2 years contract. he not willing to wait and wants to go ahead with divorce as she did not even take his consent while going.

Adv k . mahesh (advocate)     13 March 2015

as per your saying she will not come for 2 years then what you want to do 

no option move out of that house and leave happily without any boundaries and nothing can be done legally because both parties should there for contested divorce or mutual consent divorce and even you can file for divorce were you get ex-parte divorce if she does not represent through gpa and when she comes back she can appeal based on limitation

Nadeem Qureshi (Advocate/ nadeemqureshi1@gmail.com)     13 March 2015

Dear Querist

if he is unable to raise his voice against her mother and ready to live with fear and ready to destroy his life then nobody can help him.


it will be better for him to file divorce case against his wife and live alone as per his wish, left the mother and her home, if mother pressurized by any means then immediately file a complaint before police or court.


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