Need justice or required guidelines

Give daughter to in-laws, that is big headache raising up daughter without father,  all that looks good only in movies.  Kids grown up without father wont have proper childhood, proper mental growth, or else you will have to re-marry and tell new lie to your daughter, that this is the father, and one day when kid comes to know that you lied, it will get biggest shock of life and wont believe anybody anymore.  If you tell all this ramnarayan katha to kid as if you are harishchandra's daughter, it wont be able to have beleif is the instituition called as marriage. You will also have trouble in society with his kind of set up.  

Todays woman dont want responsibility of husband, they can do job, take care of kid but dont want to be under any kind of control.  Sadly it appears that you are one like that.

Justice you wont get in this case.  If you get your stridhan back and get divorce easily, is it justice?  You will be parting ways legally, you will be tagged divorcee for life.  In murder case,  one can get justice if the doer of crime gets punishment, but in matrimonial case, if you get divorce, your punishment start that day when you get divorce, getting divorce is biggest punishment.

Try to adjust with husband and think about childs future.  If you have decided to part ways, better give off kid to in-laws and marry someone else who is mentally compatible with you.  As mental compatibility is more important than anything else.

but how can ????my husband don't want to live with us.on 28th aug when i went to my in laws house they called police and said their wife that is me run from their house but the actual scene is on 8th may my in laws and my husband beaten me and locked the main door and forced me to sign on paper and leave them and its my luck or by chance i got the cell phone  and i called on 100 number then police came and then i went to my mother home.

so what is my mistake?boss its very simple to give a lecture but give a right guide a big NOOOOOOOO

1.  You have done a right thing by filing domestic violence case.  I hope in that you moved appropriate application for the recovery of stri-dhan.

2.  If you do not want to give divorce do not give it.  If he wants it let him file a case and you contest it.

3.  The daughter is with you.  And she will be with you.  If they want let them file custody case.  Even then, till the daughter gets five years age, the daughter will be in your custody.  Later on also, there will be no guarantee that they can get the custody of the girl child.  But your husband will get visitation rights.  He can come off and on, as per the court orders, to visit the child.  So, do not worry.

4.  Do not leave the job.  That is the only source which will help you to live with dignity and fend off the demonic demands made by in-laws.

chandrasekhar sir,

but if i show im doing job so didn't get the maintence allowance.

and my husband clicking my pictures and following me to show in court that im working.

one more  thing about my husband closed his running business and show himself DIWALIYA and his parents  legally seperate him from his parental property so in that case my daughter or me get maintence allownace 

Your daughter will get maintenance, definitely.  In respect of your maintenance, there are several considerations the court will go before allowing or refusing maintenance to you.  You pay him in the same coin.  You also get the proof about his income.  What I want to precisely say is that do not abandon the job only for the sake that you will get maintenance.  The job what you are doing gives immense confidence to you to fight against this world and to stop the dirty tricks some men play.  Even after the order of maintenance passed by the court, some of the men play the dirtiest of dirty tricks not to pay the amount.  Some postgraduate and well qualified men lose their jobs when wife files maintenance petition and become rickshaw pullers or street hawkers and to hoodwink the court get their selfie and smirk in the court to prove that they are the smartest in the world. Do not worry.  First, with the help of your advocate move appropriate application to direct the husband to bring his income details, bankk accounts of the previous periods and present.  He shall file all these things on affidavit and if he gives false information, he will face the case of perjury.  Not just that.  If maintenance petition granting maintenance will be declined by the court on the ground he is not working and you are working do not bother.  After this order, wait one or two months, and he starts to work somewhere else and you get the details by employing private detective agency.  So, you need not worry.  You can move application again on the ground of changed circumstances.

thanks sir for your guidence.

one more thing that he show that now he is not living with his parents he lived in rented home and mostly spend his time in gurudwara.he show himself in depression and due to that he is not able to work

The court know such gullible arguments and gives such husbands a big thumb down.  If you filed for residential rights in your DV petition, the court forces him to provide you and your daughter a rented premises.

thank u so much sir after a long time my mind get some peace.